Marriage was instituted by God, the creator of all mankind,
for the major aim of companionship and multiplication. It is not a necessary
evil and was made to be a lasting covenant that should only be broken by the
death of one of the partners…
Though humans do not have the ability to choose their origin
race, family or parents, but they have the ability to choose a life-partner
with whom to build their own family…This often is a choice of a life-time,
which would in turn affect their lives positively or negatively based on their own
choice and making…
God does not make the choice of a life partner for
individuals neither does He create any fixed and specific partners for anyone,
but He has give in His Word the commands and guidelines for making the choice
and having a lasting marriage; though God’s order is often disregarded by many
who end up making choices based on many irrelevant criteria and the usual world
system…
The individuals’ Love for God which should be the most
important spiritual foundation for a lasting marriage is often overlooked and
replaced with many trivial physical attractions which would never last forever;
thereby building a marriage on a wrong foundation of a selfish and conditional love…
A lack of good understanding of what marriage entails and
God’s order concerning it is often the root of most marital issues; when
compatibility matches are only done based on physical considerations, leaving
out the most important spiritual compatibility tests…
The ability to properly understand and define who is a “Wife”,
“Husband” and “A Couple” based on the original intent of God who instituted
marriage, would definitely make the journey an easier one to travel, with the
least troubles and challenges that would always be surmounted…
The way to making the right choice is not just by praying,
but by praying with understanding, being a passionate God-pleaser as He is one’s
only defence against evil devices; and also preparing oneself to be the best
partner while looking for the best; because one will always attract who one
really is on the inside no matter how deceptive the outward appearance looks…
Again! ‘Ready to Marry’ may not mean ‘Ready for Marriage’ and
‘Marriageable’ may not mean ‘Marry-able’!
Understanding is the key! Life is not a game of chances;
Life is a game of Choices and God is the originator of the game... The best way
to always win is to play it His way always!
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Nice day friends!
#GodIsStillInCharge
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