Thoughts for Today - "Marriage 101 (Part 5)"

Who Is A Husband?
Having the right answers to the above question should be d first step one should take before choosing a partner; and as previously stated, Issues often arise when God's order are disregarded or put out of order...
Many have wrong understanding and interpretation of who a husband really should be; specially in our present generation where freedom and independence is everyone's will...
A husband is not just a man who is married to a woman he loves and provides the needs of his family...
This is a "Husband";

1.First and most importantly, He is a 'true' Lover of God, then he should be able to properly define a "Wife"...

2.He truly loves his wife as himself 'unconditionally', as he loves God and as Christ loves His Church...

3.He understands his wife is d 'most important' person in his life, she is his 'glory' so she's second 'only' after God...

4.He 'should' be d Spiritual head/pastor/prophet of his own home; his prayers and 'words'have power to make or break his home...

5.He provides d best comfort 'he can' for his family not just materially, but also emotionally, spiritually, and otherwise...

6.He does not have a questionable character and has d important virtue of 'patience' (all compatibility tests having been done though)...

7.He has d ability to 'head' and 'lead' d family aright, through both good and bad times...

8.He is his wife's 'number one' advicer, teacher, pastor and mentor and yet he's her 'best friend' with d 'understanding' dat she is 'not' inferior to him, not his slave, but his help-mate as God ordained it...

9.He has workable and achievable plans, visions and dreams for both himself and his family, not forgetting God's place in it...

10.He keeps d 'right' company and he's not easily influenced to compromise his faith and values...

Confusion only sets in when 'she' does not understand what she should look for and 'he' does not understand what he should be...
Watch and Pray, with understanding!

Who Is A Wife?
To be continued tomorrow...

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